FIND OUT WHAT ARE THE RIGHT SIGNALS TO KNOW IF IT IS TRUE ATTRACTION. EMPATHY AND LOOKING ARE ONLY SOME OF THE SEVEN RULES OF MEN TO GET YOU UNDERSTAND IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN YOU.
When a man wants you what does he do? Whether they are shy, play at being mysterious, or are studying the situation, men tend not to say too much and, very often, they leave us on their toes, not letting out if they are interested in us or not. Result? If a man wants you the signals may not be so easy to understand.
Let’s see some signs that we can interpret, to try to read them in thought and find out if they like us.
Body language, as we know, is revealing more than a thousand words. If he tends to be very close to you, to enter your field of vision, to turn your chest towards you, not to take closed positions (such as folded arms), but, on the contrary, maintains a “welcoming” posture, this is certainly an excellent sign: he wants to be noticed, and therefore the interests.
The eyes speak and the contact through the gaze reveals what is happening between two people. Whether it is a fleeting encounter, due to shyness, or prolonged, through the eyes you will know what it feels like for you. Impossible to confuse a casual look, with the intense gaze of someone who wants us. The look is essential to understand how an interested man behaves …
Listen to what you say?
A man’s interest also manifests itself through the sense of hearing. If we used to complain about distracted males, who don’t listen to us, when a relationship has yet to blossom, an interested man can listen very well. Nothing escapes him of what you say and has an excellent memory. If he surprises you that between one meeting and another he remembers an expression you used, a sentence of yours, a comment, be sure of it: he likes you.
The touch, more or less involuntary, is another important signal that a man is interested in us. From the hand to the side when it greets you, to the casual touch of the arms or hands, to a caress on the head or on a shoulder given “in friendship”, what we would find unbearable, made by those who don’t like us, causes a pleasant thrill and confirmation of his interest in us, with the right type.
If the eye is the mirror of the soul, the smile is that of the heart. A warm and sincere smile that is addressed to you, besides being a splendid gift, is a clear signal that those who give it to you have an interest in you.
Similarly attempts to make you smile or laugh, in person or by whatever means the technology makes available (from Tinder, facebook to whatsapp …), are a symptom of the fact that those interested in your good mood are also interested in you .
The most important thing
It’s more powerful than all the previous signals, and it’s a kind of magic word: empathy. If he shows it to you, if he shows himself really interested in what you say, to the point of sincerely sharing your own emotions and putting his own in the background, you can no longer have any doubts about whether he is interested in you.
And if he likes you, try to make him show his interest.
Empathy is a rather rare skill, besides being very sexy. According to a study conducted by the American Johns Hopkins University, in fact, empathic men are the best lovers.